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Couples counseling in Medford & online across Oregon

Stronger together. Even after trust has been broken.

Constant arguing, growing distance, or the shock of an affair: you don't have to work it out alone.

Start with a free phone callSee how it works
  • Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
  • In person or online
  • Counseling couples since 1994
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Text to get started(541) 326-1696 · in person or online

You're not the only ones

Does this sound like your relationship?

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Either or both of you can start change.

  • You argue more, and it's harder to stop.
  • One of you has pulled away.
  • An affair has turned your world upside down.
  • Affection and intimacy have faded.

Services

How I can help

Also: individual counseling, hypnosis and Brainspotting, and marriage enrichment.

Affair Recovery Program

When an affair has shaken everything

Learning about an affair can feel like the ground has disappeared. My program starts with responsibility, not judgment.

About the Affair Recovery Program
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  1. Assess the affair

    Look clearly at what happened and where each of you is right now.

  2. Ask why it happened

    Understand the causes, so the same pattern doesn't repeat.

  3. Face the shock

    Work through the shock of the affair with responsibility, not judgment.

  4. Assess your relationship

    A personality and couples assessment that gives immediate help with ongoing issues.

What to expect

How getting started works

  1. Send a text

    Your scheduling limits, and private pay or insurance.

  2. Free phone conversation

    A brief call to see if we're a good fit.

  3. Initial consultation

    What's happening, and your goals.

  4. Your plan

    At least four more sessions.

Research-based approaches

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Gottman Method (advanced couples training)
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Prepare/Enrich
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In person

Counseling in Medford, in the Rogue Valley.

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Online

Secure telehealth sessions for couples anywhere in Oregon.

Barbara Massey, LMFTLicensed Marriage & Family Therapist

About me

Hi, I'm Barbara.

I've counseled couples since 1994, and in the Rogue Valley since 1998. I founded ParkPlace Counseling Center in Medford and Ashland, and I was Clinical Director at Samaritan Counseling Center in Medford, Grants Pass and Ashland.

Much of my work is with couples facing betrayal: infidelity, broken trust and emotional withdrawal. I use research-based methods to help you change negative patterns into caring communication, and to save you time, money and frustration along the way.

  • Oregon Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT)
  • Master's in Marriage & Family Therapy, Azusa Pacific University
  • Advanced Couples Training, The Gottman Institute
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) training in affairs
  • Prepare/Enrich facilitator
  • Telemental Health Certified
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Get started

Take the first step

Text or email with your name, your scheduling limits, and whether you'll pay privately or use insurance. The first phone conversation is free.

Email Barbara

Please keep texts and emails brief and leave out sensitive details. We can talk about everything on the phone.

In crisis? Therapy is not an emergency service. Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or call 911.