Affair Recovery Program
After an affair, there is a way through. Responsibility, not judgment.
A focused program for couples recovering from infidelity: an assessment of the affair, the question of why it happened, and two continuous hours of counseling built around your situation.
Support for both of you
Everyone in the room needs care
An affair affects each partner differently, so the program makes room for both of you.
For the partner who was hurt
Room for the shock, anger and grief, and clear answers to the question of why it happened.
For the partner who had the affair
Take responsibility without being judged, and learn how to support your partner's healing.
For the two of you
A couples assessment that gives immediate help with the issues you're still facing together.
What the program includes
When an affair has shaken everything
Learning about an affair can feel like the ground has disappeared, whether it happened recently or you found out after many years together. That shock deserves real care.
My Affair Recovery Program starts with a phone consultation, followed by two continuous hours of custom counseling built around your situation, with learning materials you can keep using afterward.
The focus is responsibility, not judgment, so both partners can be heard.
The program is $475 for two continuous hours of counseling and can be extended. Insurance is not used for this program.
Assess the affair
Look clearly at what happened and where each of you is right now.
Ask why it happened
Understand the causes, so the same pattern doesn't repeat.
Face the shock
Work through the shock of the affair with responsibility, not judgment.
Assess your relationship
A personality and couples assessment that gives immediate help with ongoing issues.
For couples who need more time
Intensive counseling
Some couples need more than a weekly hour. Intensives are closely spaced sessions for couples with specific needs, or who live outside the Rogue Valley.
The program is built on practicing new skills together, not only talking about them, so you leave with something you can use at home.
Intensives are often a good fit for:
- Couples from Bend, Klamath Falls, Eugene, Portland, Brookings or Coos Bay
- Up to 20 hours focused on one issue
- Couples facing post-traumatic stress, depression, or repeated infidelity
Questions about affair recovery
What couples often ask
How much does the Affair Recovery Program cost?
$475 for two continuous hours of custom counseling. It can be extended for an additional fee. Insurance is not used for this program.
What happens first?
A phone consultation. Send a text to (541) 326-1696 and we'll find a time to talk.
Do we have to decide right away whether to stay together?
No. The program focuses first on understanding what happened and why, so any decision about the future can come with a clearer head.
Get started
Take the first step
Text or email with your name, your scheduling limits, and whether you'll pay privately or use insurance. The first phone conversation is free.
Please keep texts and emails brief and leave out sensitive details. We can talk about everything on the phone.
- Text(541) 326-1696
- Emailbmasseyj@proton.me
- LocationMedford, Oregon · Online across Oregon
- HoursEvening appointments may be available
In crisis? Therapy is not an emergency service. Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or call 911.